You know how the color white is all colors combined and illuminated by each other that it gives you this pale slate.
My theory is that it is the same with emotions.
Emotionless, I don’t think is the absence of emotion, rather the opposite. Emotionless is the color white, it’s all the emotions aggregated and staggered together that you no longer know what you are feeling.
Those who are emotionless are the most emotional, I think. because they feel everything at once without having the luxury to decide one feeling over the other.”
Fun little trick I learned in therapy: validation. When someone is upset, don’t try to fix the problem, point out the cause, or tell them it could be worse. Just validate their emotions. Be like, ‘shit yeah man, that sucks. I’m sorry you’re going through that. I’m here for you.’ That’s literally all you have to do to make them feel better. Thank you and goodnight.
You do know the one with the beautifully colored plumage is the male peacock and it only presents itself like that to attract the plain colored female, right?
So basically the only role your fabulousness has is to impress the plain ol’ me. And I may or may not give a fuck.
the last one omfg im so done
I usually don’t reblog this kinda stuff but I guess my followers need some problematic lesbian gazing today.
I am reblogging this because I have met so many girls afraid to work out in case they got “too muscular” even though htey actually wanted to work out
Men are so godfucking afraid of strong women that they created this myth that if you lift a dumbbell two and a half times you’ll suddenly turn into the Hulk. I’ve been lifting HEAVY 3x a week for months and I still look like a skinny little twig.
I wish building muscle was as easy as they make it sound like. =p
I will gladly suffer this problematic lesbian gazing.
Reminder to DC and Marvel fans to keep up the rage about
- Marvel’s erasure and fridging of The Avengers’ founding female
- NBC’s Constantine’s decision to straight-wash Hellblazer
Support each other and yourselves by sharing your rage in the #BiBlazer and #JanetVanCrime hashtags on twitter.
Everyone is talking about Marvel vs DC, well right now it seems they’re having an ignorance off, and us fans need to band together to stop this.